I understand that the world is totally unfair in ways, but why must it also be cruel? Why must the Veteran that gave his country 42 years of his life be given a cruel situation? Why is it that some people can spend thousands maybe even millions of dollars on STUFF, but yet some people can't afford to even pay for their own meal? I'm not talking about the people you can't afford it because of drugs or gambling, I'm talking about the people that worked their asses off for years, lost everything, and yet the government doesn't care. The government cares about those who made the bad choice to gamble or buy drugs, and eventually got themselves in that situation, but they don't care about those who lost their job, then their home, then their family, just because they chose a job that got cut out by foreigners. Why must they be so cruel? How are you to deal with that?
Drama. Why do people have to be so dramatic? I understand TV show dramas, but in real life? Get over yourself. What makes you better than the next person? I've always been taught if you don't want to be put in a situation, don't put yourself there in the first place. If you didn't want to end up the way you did, then you shouldn't have made those decision that you did. But you did, and now you have to deal. You've go to live with those consequences, and move on. Some times it's not worth trying to fix something that you've fixed time and time again. You just move on.
Tuesday, October 23, 2012
Wednesday, October 10, 2012
Society.
I'm having trouble understand society these days. I'm a girl average height and weight, but with curves. Today I went shopping for new jeans, and found nothing. 23 pairs, and nothin'. I find that to be slightly ridiculous. I can't be the only girl that has this shape and this problem. I don't want to wear skinny jeans, even though that was the fashion, I want to wear my normal boot cut jeans. The way that society makes everything out to be it just not fair to everyone.
Also, now it's the common thing to only have one best friend. Having multiple friends is a great thing, and so is having that best friend, but you can have more that one right? Well I guess not. I've always felt that it was one thing to be dependent on one person, but to be so far engrossed in them that you forget about everybody else is just going to far. There are so many people in this world that it's a good thing to know many people and stay active in their lives as well.
Maybe I'm just crazy, but I think everyone is just too engrossed in this image that the country has produced.
Also, now it's the common thing to only have one best friend. Having multiple friends is a great thing, and so is having that best friend, but you can have more that one right? Well I guess not. I've always felt that it was one thing to be dependent on one person, but to be so far engrossed in them that you forget about everybody else is just going to far. There are so many people in this world that it's a good thing to know many people and stay active in their lives as well.
Maybe I'm just crazy, but I think everyone is just too engrossed in this image that the country has produced.
Tuesday, October 2, 2012
Past meets Present
Why do I always find it so hard to just do what I really want? Saying the truth to a significant other, saying your true feelings to a person being mean to you, telling others your real opinion even though it is the very opposite of theirs.
I found out recently that even your oldest friends can be lying directly to your face. They say what they believe you want to hear, not what you actually want to hear. I've always believed that you need to own up to your words, because even though they may be harsh, sometimes the other person needs to hear this. If your shirt is tucked into your underwear, you would want someone to tell you, right? Some goes with feelings and emotions. You wan to know how the other person is feeling so you can fix it. Without the truth, nothing can change.
Why is it so hard to let yourself just fall for another person? Trust? Insecurities? Either way, it's so hard but yet everyone always says it's worth it in the end. But is it truly? In the past, I know how hard it has been for me to trust, but recently I have been finding that I can trust, but I might just be too afraid to do so. I'm always waiting for that moment I'm going to get hurt, for that moment that will break me. I know better that it won't happen, but it is better to be prepared right? I've never really thought about the future in the aspect of getting married, living in a house, having cook outs in the back yard, but lately that has been sounding more and more like something I want. But I'm scared to let that dream become a reality. Does the other person want that? Is that something I can do?
I guess you never really know what you want unless you just try it.
I found out recently that even your oldest friends can be lying directly to your face. They say what they believe you want to hear, not what you actually want to hear. I've always believed that you need to own up to your words, because even though they may be harsh, sometimes the other person needs to hear this. If your shirt is tucked into your underwear, you would want someone to tell you, right? Some goes with feelings and emotions. You wan to know how the other person is feeling so you can fix it. Without the truth, nothing can change.
Why is it so hard to let yourself just fall for another person? Trust? Insecurities? Either way, it's so hard but yet everyone always says it's worth it in the end. But is it truly? In the past, I know how hard it has been for me to trust, but recently I have been finding that I can trust, but I might just be too afraid to do so. I'm always waiting for that moment I'm going to get hurt, for that moment that will break me. I know better that it won't happen, but it is better to be prepared right? I've never really thought about the future in the aspect of getting married, living in a house, having cook outs in the back yard, but lately that has been sounding more and more like something I want. But I'm scared to let that dream become a reality. Does the other person want that? Is that something I can do?
I guess you never really know what you want unless you just try it.
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